I can see many people being disconnected to this blog and never ever considering that they themselves are victums. All of these blogs are not just talking about the neighboor acrossed the street, or your sister that is so rebelious.... its about you. Put yourself aside for a min, take away your thinking of " this couldn't possibly be for me..." and really soul search.
I can remember taking a personality test and seeing what color I am. I remembered answering all the questions how I wanted to be, not how I am. For instance, I answered that I was the party person, the outgoing, the popular, the person that is always living on the edge. I am far from this. Sure I love to party, I like to talk to people, I have friends, and love doing crazy things, but I wouldn't say I am THE party animal, an so on and so on. What I am getting at is just be truthful to yourself. All people can benifit from self help, motivational speaking, but not all people think it benifits them...cause they don't think they are in need of help! I have gone through so many instances, talks, books and so on in my life thinking "man this would sure help..." and think of somone else and how they need to change. A thought popped in my head: :"How can I change?" it was so life changing that I stopped the tape I was listening to and really thought. I had learned about paradims and influencing others, and I knew that I couldn't change someone, but I could change myself and in so doing influence them to change. It just never hit me that I was the one that needed to change till that moment.
so step back, take a TRUTHFUL look at yourself and begin to indulge on helping yourself be a better person by letting others influence you in meaningful ways through inspiration and motivation. It's ok to not be perfect. Just disregard the negitive influence and don't react to it. Get rid of the thoughts that everything around you needs to change for your sake and remember you have to make the change before your sorroundings change.
